Creative Frustration

My March necklace definitely has to be about all of my wonderful family, friends and students who have so kept me together this last year. I have the image of a perfect necklace using lots of bright colors, hearts and hands. The problem is I can't seem to make it work. Good thing I have until the end of March. It is going to take that long to come up with something I'm happy with. You guys deserve a wonderful necklace!

Ahhh, heat!

This has been a crazy winter so far. All the changes in temperature and the barometer would have made this a difficult winter even without the additional bone pain. I am quite literally in constant pain. Thank goodness for my new tub. It is so wonderful to have the heat that covers my legs and hips. We had to turn the heat up on the hot water heater for me to get the water as hot as I want it. My water bill is going to be huge this time. It is well worth it to have the relief from pain even if it is only temporary. I still haven't replaced the flooring. Pain tolerance, energy and weather haven't all worked together at the same time yet.

February Necklace

I have posted my February necklace for the Bead Journal Project.  It is my Buddhist necklace, i. e., part of the series of what kept me together such as Buddhism and friends and family.  I wonder if  it would be possible to do one about my iPad? Being able to use it to read when I didn't have any energy to do anything else certainly kept me sane.  Oh, well, something to think about.

You can see the new necklace here.

Update

I had my four month checkup with the oncologist yesterday. Everything looks good. Bloodwork good, liver seems fine, next appointment in four months. It turns out that a contributing factor to all my bone pain is the estrogen blocker which I will be on for the next 4 1/2 years. I can't stop it because my tumor was so strongly estrogen positive. Bummer. Now I just have to get a mamogram to complete the annual checkup.

I did go to the grocery store myself for the first time in a year. Strange the things that become triumphs after you have been sick.

Reflection

So on a more positive note I think that journaling about your experiences is a powerful tool.  The experiences of the past year however have been so beyond words that they are woefully inadequate.  The blog helped but not necessarily to deal with the feelings.  I decided to join a beading group with a commitment to complete a monthly project.   Here is a link to my first completed project.  January Bead Journal project

The good thing about it is the reflection time as I think about what I want to represent.  Although I may not necessarily share what they are every choice has a symbolic meaning.  As I work on the piece the symbolism becomes less important and the actual art comes forward.  The process has done it's work however and I can move on from that aspect of the year or integrate it or whatever.

January Blues

On January 3 it was a year since my mastectomy.  Dealing with the issues and complications that arose from that has taken the majority of 2011.  I feel like I literally lost a year and am still dealing with side effects.

Since taking the IV antibiotics I have had severe pain in my muscles and joints.  The tendons of my hamstrings are so tight it is hard to stand up smoothly.  Sometimes they feel like they lock on me.  I saw my rheumatologist yesterday and he thinks I have triggered a reactive arthritis - either from the antibiotics, the stress or both.  He increased my muscle relaxant which makes me sleepy.  I know, I am never satisfied.

I am having a walk-in tub installed next week.  Heat really helps the pain.  It is not good for my lymphodema but the pain is what is limiting my life right now so that is my first priority.  My endurance is actually much better.  I just have to stop because I hurt.

Since I am not having a breast reconstruction I went back to Annabelle's and bought some more prosthetic bras and exchanged the prosthesis I have for a smaller one.  This is just a loaner and I will get a permanent one once we clean up the mastectomy site in June.  The prosthesis I had did not take into the account the lumpy condition of my mastectomy site.  It was definitely too big when put on top of the tissue which is there.  I am much more symmetrical now.

Another Milestone

I spent Christmas day with my sister Trish and her boyfriend's family. He lives just outside of Columbus. This was the first time I have gone somewhere on my own since the mastectomy. I just got in the car and drove up like a normal person. Wow, maybe I will eventually get a life back.

It was a fun day. Mark has such a nice family. We had a euchre tournament in the afternoon. Family and friends were in and out all day. The one thing I didn't like was pictures. I think it is cool that they take every possible combination of the family members together. It wasn't so cool when they wanted a picture of me and Trish. So far I have been able to avoid pictures of my short, short hair style. When my hair grows out I really don't want any reminders. Yes, I know that it is better than being bald but I still don't like it.

I stayed the night and left about 10:30 the next morning. Trish and Mark are social butterflies compared to me and were trying to figure out how to get everyone into their schedule. I was ready to come home anyway but figured I should clear out so they could get on with their day.